For most, Valentine's Day means the usual romantic gestures—flowers, chocolates, couples going out for a nice dinner. But what if instead of the typical romance-related connections, we dug deeper into what Valentine's Day can mean?
For me, Valentine's Day makes me think of commitment. Traditionally, February 14th is all about honoring the commitment between 2 people—husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, etc. But romantic love is not the only form of commitment.
My ultimate commitment is to God and Jesus. If Valentine's Day is about love, I cannot think of a more profound love letter than the Bible. It is God's love letter to humanity. And if the Bible is a love letter to us, then obedience is our way of loving God back.
The book of John is just one place in the Bible that defines love:
“If you love me, you will keep my commandments.”
John 14:15 ESV
Obedience is the Christian's way of showing God we love him. Part of that obedience is in spending time with God. I can think of no better way to spend Valentine's Day than by reading the Bible and praying. Letting God know just how much he means to us.
There are other forms of commitment as well. For me, I am committed to my writing. I love to write, of course. But it's more than the writing alone. It's writing so that others, like you, might gain some value from what I write. Keeping the writing streak alive is my way of committing to you, my reader.
Let's not forget about my commitment to my family and friends. Reaching out to all those we love, beyond the romantic, on Valentine's Day to tell them how you feel is just as important. As a single guy, connecting with my loved ones is a great way to spend time on Valentine's Day.
Finally, there is the commitment I have to my keto lifestyle. Making sure I am healthy is not only good for me, but also for those who love me. No one wants to see me be unhealthy, including myself. Everyone I love wants me around for as long as I can be.
So, next time Valentine's Day rolls around, be mindful of all the commitments in your life, not just the romantic ones. Reflect on those commitments and be grateful for all the love you have in your life. Take time to celebrate that love:
- Spend time reading your Bible and praying
- Reach out to your loved ones to tell them you love them
- Journal your gratefulness for and acknowledge your personal commitments
What did you do for Valentine's Day 2026? How can you make Valentine's Day 2027 even more meaningful? Would love to hear your thoughts.
And Happy Valentine's Day!
—Daniel